HOW TO BUILD A WORK PLACE GIRLSQUAD

Today we’re embracing an Instagram cliché to talk about #squadgoals. While we talk about this, we don’t put nearly as much thought into the kind of woman we spend our daylight hours with: our coworkers, clients, and managers. Since most of you are women in the workplace, so it's time to start talking about who you're working with.

Turns out, this people impact you in more ways than you realise. They are powerful influencers, whether they know it or not, and directly affect how you approach your career and life. In fact, that subliminal influence makes it crucial to be a little more thoughtful when deciding who to grab lunch with or when considering company culture after a job offer. Your coworkers’ personalities? They matter. A lot.

We talked with Kelly who is a graduate from LaSalle Universit with a Bachelor's degree is psychology, which she uses to helps become a better version of them selves. 

LOOK FOR REALISTIC OPTIMISM

Research has shown that realistic optimists may ultimately experience more success and happiness. Who wouldn’t want to get themselves more of that? Sure, if you can dream it, you probably can do it, but it will also take a lot of work along the way. She teaches how you need to focus on the possibilities, but do the work to get to your ultimate goal. Start out simply by noticing the positive in your life and keeping a daily list. Once you start to regularly focus on the positives, your brain tends to notice more of the wonderful parts of your world and less of the negative. You'll also start to gravitate toward people who share your perspective, and ultimately, find your perfect squad zone.

TAKE SOME SOCIAL RISKS IN YOUR WORKPLACE

Kelly says you should not spend all of your time with the same old team that makes you feel safe. You don’t need to abandon them, but you do need to broaden your horizons. Being surrounded by people who are familiar doesn’t always lead to new and awesome accomplishments. They may be genuinely nice people—that doesn't mean they help push you and make you better. If you’re looking to make change for the better in your life, sometimes you need to shake things up and find new circles to run with for a while. Is there a department that seems to be killing it in your company, and you’d love to know how? Ask to sit in on some of their meetings or reach out to their leader and request a lunch to ask some questions. You never know what those conversations might lead to.

MAKE SOME (SOMETIMES TOUGH) CHOICES

It may not feel like you’ve always got a choice when it comes to those you’re surrounded by at work. Sometimes, you’ll have to stick with the same team, but must you eat lunch with them? Do you really need to hit every happy hour with the group who gripes nonstop? She shared that you can choose to use that time when you’re not actively at work on a project more wisely. You can ask for more exposure to other colleagues. Talk to your boss about the importance of variety and diversity of thought. Express that you’d like a chance to work on a different type of project or with a new team and how you believe that will impact your ability to deliver not only to the organization but also yourself. And at the end of the day, let’s not forget that you can also choose to make a job switch if you so desire.


FIND A POSSE OF WOMEN BEYOND THE WORKPLACE

One of the cuncel she gave is to discover people who inspire you, then bond like nobody’s business. You can discover these folks anywhere. Someone who works in another role or department, heck, even another organization or a completely different field. You never really know who could help to open up your world. Build relationships with the people you’ve found (in a non-creepy way) and soak up all that they’ve got to offer. Intrigued by the tech space? Join a Meetup group of people who live and breathe it. Own up to the fact that you’re a novice but looking to learn. People love to share their knowledge and no doubt you’ve got skills you can pass along to them as well. While you’re at it, remember to have fun.

Lastly she says, don’t forget to be someone who people would be happy to have in their crew. Support your friends, colleagues, and family. Be there when they need you. Be honest and help them through the good and bad times. Push them when they need it. You sure want them to do it for you.